Men do not have the same associations with sex as women do, and they never will. Even a non-traditional socialization in men will not change this in the current society. At worst, men have performance anxiety and fear rejection, and that is it. That is the extent of their fucking woes.
They don’t associate sex with disgust, lack of purity, or violation of their bodies. They don’t grow up thinking it’s something taken from them or something done to them. They aren’t afraid of being used for it, being used as a tool. They don’t grow up knowing that the images of them, their parts and their orifices are masturbated to, each time more degrading and violent than the last. This allows them to have a casual non-chalant approach to sex devoid of these additional emotional repercussions that come with engaging in it for us. They don’t grow up fearful to death of sex. They’re simply not afraid.
